How to make money because you’re bored

Have you ever wondered how to make money because you’re bored? If you are so inclined, you might just make most your money from an obscure private pet project. Here’s fourteen reasons why.
How to be a proud goofball

Since I have a quirky website and service a niche, I get a lot of really cooky people in my office. But then I’m certainly biased in my assessment since I’ve always been a goofball and if there’s any consistency in what I do, I’ll encourage people to blossom at their cookiest. That said, let […]
Can’t be special and polyamorous

Polyamory is the most radical form of non-monogamy. Books supporting non-monogamous journeys may leave you puzzled why you struggle in your relationships. You might be trying to be special and polyamorous.
Post pandemic poly problems

I specialize in non-monogamous relationships. One thing has popped up repeatedly in the last few months, is what I call post pandemic poly problems. It goes something like this: The couple started dating pre-pandemic and had a lot of fun. One of them was very clear about their polyamorous stance and the other one was […]
Couples workshop online: Love like a pro

This workshop was developed in-person pre-pandemic but has since moved online. For a small contribution, you and your partner get to explore some of the basics of sex and relationship therapy. Contact me to join our couples workshop online. This workshop is designed but not limited to people with no previous therapy experience who are […]
Benefits of online couples counseling

Over the last years, online counseling has become more popular and I’m often asked why people would choose online over in-person counseling. Here are ten of the more popular online couples counseling benefits. If you are still unsure how to get access to counseling, think about these aspects: 1. Getting access to a counselor who […]
Why I do English couples counseling in Berlin

Much of our lives is structured through cultural efforts and accomplishments, we’re doing our best to be civil, loving and welcoming, and to contribute. beneath it all pulls a tide of more unruly forces. The power of these forces is addressed in couples counseling, offering outlets and channels for the unruly parts of human nature.
Sex as… room for dark sides (introducing the relationship dynamics approach)
Sex als… Kommunikation (C.J. Ahlers)

Zentrale These des Buches ist ein Verständnis von Sex als Kommunikation mit der elementaren Botschaft des Angenommen-Seins: Das ist es, wonach wir uns sehnen, dass uns jemand will, so wie wir sind, mit Haut, Haaren, Stärken, Schwächen und Eigenheiten.
Rules of kink 1: Consent

Consent: Kink, porn and #metoo In this series we look at RACK, beginning with rules of kink 1: consent. There are two established rule sets in BDSM and kink: Safe, sane and consensual (SSC) kink and risk-aware consensual kink (RACK). The more recent RACK approach drops the idea of a sane decision for actions because, […]