Can’t be special and polyamorous
Polyamory is the most radical form of non-monogamy. Books supporting non-monogamous journeys may leave you puzzled why you struggle in your relationships. You might be trying to be special and polyamorous.
Post pandemic poly problems
I specialize in non-monogamous relationships. One thing has popped up repeatedly in the last few months, is what I call post pandemic poly problems. It goes something like this: The couple started dating pre-pandemic and had a lot of fun. One of them was very clear about their polyamorous stance and the other one was […]
Sex as… room for dark sides (introducing the relationship dynamics approach)
Thirty years since Schnarch’s passionate marriage!
The ability to self-soothe is crucial for functioning relationships. It’s been over thirty years since “Passionate Marriage” made David Schnarch one of the most popular sex therapists on the planet. His approach altered our understanding of couple therapy and laid the foundation for a new tradition in the field. This article is for you, […]
Using design to make hard life choices
Design is everywhere, design thinking has made it into most innovation labs, and design thinking coaches are going strong. Today I’m sharing an amazing article on how to apply design principles to life choices. Thank you Sam for sharing this with us. You can tell from the profound writing these are original thoughts put out […]
Sex as… space (introducing Esther Perel)
Is sex something we do or is it a space we enter? I listened to Esther Perel posing that question the other day in her million-viewer talk, where she discusses infidelity and the duality of love and desire. As a sex therapist, the idea of sex as a space appealed to me, because it: This […]