How to make money because you’re bored
Have you ever wondered how to make money because you’re bored? If you are so inclined, you might just make most your money from an obscure private pet project. Here’s fourteen reasons why.
How to be a proud goofball
Since I have a quirky website and service a niche, I get a lot of really cooky people in my office. But then I’m certainly biased in my assessment since I’ve always been a goofball and if there’s any consistency in what I do, I’ll encourage people to blossom at their cookiest. That said, let […]
Can’t be special and polyamorous
Polyamory is the most radical form of non-monogamy. Books supporting non-monogamous journeys may leave you puzzled why you struggle in your relationships. You might be trying to be special and polyamorous.
Post pandemic poly problems
I specialize in non-monogamous relationships. One thing has popped up repeatedly in the last few months, is what I call post pandemic poly problems. It goes something like this: The couple started dating pre-pandemic and had a lot of fun. One of them was very clear about their polyamorous stance and the other one was […]
Couples workshop online: Love like a pro
This workshop was developed in-person pre-pandemic but has since moved online. For a small contribution, you and your partner get to explore some of the basics of sex and relationship therapy. Contact me to join our couples workshop online. This workshop is designed but not limited to people with no previous therapy experience who are […]
Benefits of online couples counseling
Over the last years, online counseling has become more popular and I’m often asked why people would choose online over in-person counseling. Here are ten of the more popular online couples counseling benefits. If you are still unsure how to get access to counseling, think about these aspects: 1. Getting access to a counselor who […]
Sex as… room for dark sides (introducing the relationship dynamics approach)
Rules of kink 1: Consent
Consent: Kink, porn and #metoo In this series we look at RACK, beginning with rules of kink 1: consent. There are two established rule sets in BDSM and kink: Safe, sane and consensual (SSC) kink and risk-aware consensual kink (RACK). The more recent RACK approach drops the idea of a sane decision for actions because, […]
Using design to make hard life choices
Design is everywhere, design thinking has made it into most innovation labs, and design thinking coaches are going strong. Today I’m sharing an amazing article on how to apply design principles to life choices. Thank you Sam for sharing this with us. You can tell from the profound writing these are original thoughts put out […]
How to find the right therapist
You would think it’s easy to find articles on how to find the right therapist but it really isn’t. Most articles seem to be written by therapists promoting their professional stance or by individuals sharing their experience. These articles make for great inspiration yet I wanted to find a post that is a little more […]